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If You "Offend" Your Boss

2011/4/29 16:29:00 56

As long as you are

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A member of a clan, who has been in the workplace for a long time, will inevitably "offend".

Boss

This may be caused by you, or it may be caused by the other party, but no matter who is right or wrong, it is not a good thing to "offend" the boss from any point of view. As long as you do not want to quit or resign, you must not be deadlocked. Otherwise, working in such an environment is not only unpleasant, but it may also affect your future.

So you need to remind yourself not to be impulsive, but to handle sensibly, leaving room for your own room for maneuver.

Do not seek others' understanding with emotion.

No matter what the reason is, "offending" the boss, we are always unhappy. It is inevitable that we can generate some emotions. We also want to talk to others. We often choose the circle we work in and tell our colleagues about their difficulties.

The result is not very good. If the fault lies in your boss, your colleagues are not good at making a statement, and they are not willing to interfere in your argument with your boss. How can they comfort you? If it is your own cause, they can not bear to say that you are not, sprinkle salt on your wound.

Looking at the relationship between you and your boss is in a stalemate, some colleagues to avoid arousing suspicion, do not let the boss misunderstand himself to collude with you in a piece to say three to four, but will alienate you, make you more and more isolated.

What's worse, some people who are otherwise interested may tell you what you told him, and then add them to your boss, which will deepen the gap between you and your boss.

So, when you "offend" your boss, don't be eager to talk to people. Do not expect people to understand. The best way is to sober yourself up to the crux of the problem and find the right way to solve the problem, so that you can have a good foundation for your relationship with your boss.

Don't bother with interruption.

work

Even if you are greatly wronged, you should not bring these emotions into your work. Many people will think you are right, waiting for your boss to give you a "saying", and normal work is interrupted.

A lot of work is done by cooperation between people. Once you stop, it will affect the progress of your work, drag others' back legs, make other colleagues dissatisfied with you, and a higher level of boss will also make a bad impression on you, and the boss has more reason to say how wrong you are.

In this way, you will lose all your efforts and it will be difficult for you to change so many people's opinion of you later.

We must warn ourselves that we must overcome our emotions, and in any case, do not affect the work we should do at hand.

Some people do not work to intimidate their superiors. This is a very irrational behavior, which will only make their future situation worse.